My girlfriend is 6 months prego and finally decided to get an abortion. Should she go with a state-funded abortion or one at a private clinic? Obiviously, the state-funded one would make more fiscal sense, but we want to make sure that it’s safe and that they get all of it.
Best Answer: Look, I am very for abortion but this is SIX MONTHS! They could probably induce her now and the child would survive. Please, give the child up, you really have nothing to gain from killing it at this point. You could have done it sooner, why did you not? Please- my dad is adopted and he is very grateful because someone like you chose to let him live. Like I said, I believe very much in abortion, but please reconsider.
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i would give the baby to adobtion so some other family can be happy. dont kill.
Why not give the baby up to a loving couple that are desperate for a child of their own. Please, please do the right thing. Don’t kill the baby. That is not fair.
I’m pretty sure it’s illegal after 3 months.
You can’t get rid of this baby, give it to a family who wants it.
WHAT did the baby do to you, if you dont want it dont abort it set it up for adoption
Why did you guys 6 months later?? I don’t get it. You guys could of gotten the day after pill. You guys had many options. I don’t have a problem with abortion. But waiting when she’s 6 months pregnant is so wrong. Even you could of taken precautions, It’s not all her fault it’s yours too. Why don’t you guys wait 3 more months and give up your child for adoption?
That’s horrible, she really should have decided that sooner. You should start making plans to keep the child or give it up for adoption, because you won’t find a clinic that does abortions at 6 months. It’s too late, if the fetus was born, it would survive on it’s own, so they don’t do it that late.
DONT kill that baby!!! I had one done and I have regreted it ever since!!! Give it to a family that cant have kids I wish I did, but I was afraid of attachment. Your girlfriend being 6 months prego that baby can feel, kick, and everything else just like you and me!!! I was only a month along when I had mine and even though it was nothing I STILL REGRET IT!!!
It’s a baby, not a choice.. Give it up for adoption, and make a family happy.
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If you live in the US, its too late. There are only a couple of clinics in the whole country that will do third trimester abortions and then usually just if the mom’s life is in danger. At 6 months, the baby could survive if delivered today. Even staunch pro-choice people balk at killing babies that could survive outside the womb.
Look, I am very for abortion but this is SIX MONTHS! They could probably induce her now and the child would survive. Please, give the child up, you really have nothing to gain from killing it at this point. You could have done it sooner, why did you not? Please- my dad is adopted and he is very grateful because someone like you chose to let him live. Like I said, I believe very much in abortion, but please reconsider.
That would be totally aw full if you got rid of it at 6 months, i would get her to keep it, then put it up for adoption. Its sly otherwise.
yeah, like everyone has said, it’s illegal to get an abortion at six months because there’s a possibility that the fetus could be viable at this point (live outside the womb.) First trimester (conception-3 months) are available to everyone), second trimester (3-6 months) only if the fetus is jeopardizing the health of the mother, and third trimester (6-9 months) not at all except under severe life or death situations. Unless you want to go to a foreign country or have an “accident” (both of which I firmly do not recommend since your child, because it is a child at this point, can live.) if you can’t live up to your responsibilities as a parent, give it up for adoption.
dont kill.
have faith in God and go the right way.
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oh my god no offence but you cant kill that baby….its a life now….how could you do that. use condoms if you dont want a child. you made a decision now stick to it…and if you still dont want it give it to a loving family who cant have children
also it will be very traumatic for your girlfriend she will have to give birth to it
if i were you guys, you should just let the baby live and just give it out for adoption to a loving couple… im sure there are alot of couples out there who are willing to adopt…. WE ALL KNOW THAT ABORTION IS A SIN! even if it is legal in some countries, still in GOD’S EYES, IT’S A MORTAL SIN. Couldn’t you just at least be responsible for the actions that you’ve done??? i mean after all its your fault, why make a poor baby suffer??? couldn’t you just sacrifice 9 mos???… even if that baby inside your girlfriend isn’t totally alive or formed, but dude, were talking about a BABY here! a human life… if i were you, you and you gf should think it over.
Please don’t abort – that baby did not make the choice – you and your girlfriend did. Life is precious – give the baby up for adoption so another family can experience the joys of parenthood.
No abortions. Don’t kill your baby and give it to a couple who can’t have a baby. Think about it there are millions of people out there who want a baby so much, then they hear that you just killed yours. I was thirteen and said “No I won’t kill my baby.” Then I was forteen and said “#@!$ not again! I’m not killing this one either though.” Then I am sixteen now and took my kids to the park and slid down the slides with them and said “Woo whoo! Non-dead children, this is great!”
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if they are legal to do them there then its safe there. they would be closed down if there were any problems reported. She is going to be okay and they will have her go back in about 2-3 weeks to make sure that they did get everything. The most important thing is that you are there for her because its a very difficult and emotional thing to go through
best wishes to you both
also: you CAN get an abortion up to about 26 weeks and it IS legal anything over that they most likely wont since if you have the baby that far along they would still have a chance of living without the mothers help
Dude don’t abort the baby. I am speaking from experience when I say that adoption is the way to go. I was adopted at birth. My biological mother loved me enough to let me have a chance at life rather than taking away my life to make it easier on her. I have an amazing family I wouldn’t trade for the world. Think about who this child could be when he/she grows up. Give it a chance. before I was born my parents couldn’t have children, and probably would not have gotten to adopt a child because my dad’s job put them at the bottom of the adoption list. But when my family is together you can truly see the joy in parents eye’s. Don’t kill this child just because you want the easy way out. Give it the same gift I was given, the gift of live.
first of all let me ask, why wait soo long to get an abortion, if you decide to get an abortion it should be in the first few weeks, 3 months at the most. Don’t get me wrong I believe in pro choice but I also believe in a thing called personal responsibility. meaning if you are to do it, do it in a responsible manner don’t wait till last second to do it.
my advice is go ahead and let her give birth then give it up for adoption. 3 month abortion is really not a big deal but anything after that is too much.
if you are very sure you never want kids take my advice on this one go ahead and get yourself fixed. seems like you are either really young or you just have no sense of responsibility.
At 6 months that’s terrible…sorry, if yall waited this long wait 3 more months & put him/her up for adoption.
murderer!!